Never blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them. Expectations always lead you to being disappointed. -Anurag Prakash ray
From the Author: Natacha
Hi All!!!! I haven't been posting in a long time and a lot has went on in my life since the last time I post. If you are a follower of my blog post, then you know that I do not post a blog unless I am inspired to write one. Whether it's something that I read, saw, heard, or dropped in my spirit, I wait for it.
Since the last time, I have been real sick, my husband and I opened our salon/spa, I lost a couple of people in my life that I thought was friends and my employment status changed. Have you ever put your all into someone or something and got disappointed. Well, that's where I am at now. I am the kind of person if I am your friend or if I have a job to do, I put my all into it, I give my best and I am always the one that is there for everyone but, when I'm in need or when things are not going to good in my life, the ones who I thought was my friend was no where to be found.
I went through a situation on my job about a month or so ago and it was very stressful for me, I tried my best to get the situation taken care of. The situation was frustrated for me and the other people that was involved and most of the people that was involved I called them friends. I talked with these people everyday, I shared my problems with theses people, I prayed for these people and these same people, who I considered my friends turned on me. I never gave these people any reason not to trust me before or showed them in any way that I would do anything to hurt them. I was hurt, I was confused, I was disappointed because I really put my all into being a good friend to these people.
But, I now know that man will disappoint you all the time. I don't blame them, I blame myself. Just because I put my all into something or someone, doesn't mean they will or I shouldn't expect people to be like me. Putting your all into someone or something and to be thrown out like you are nothing is hard to deal with but, what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger. I have cried my last tear about the situation and now I am going on. Sometimes Things and People are only in your life for a season and for a reason, they are there to teach you a lesson and believe me lesson learned.
Just want to give a word of encouragement be who you are and not what you think people want you to be. Be true to yourself and never expect anything from anybody because you will always be disappointed. When you don't expect anything and you receive something, it's a blessing.
Trust in God and give him your all and you will NEVER be disappointed. I am a living witness. I can now close that chapter of my life and move on to the next.
Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. Colossians 3:23-25
From the Author: Natacha
Hi All!!!! I haven't been posting in a long time and a lot has went on in my life since the last time I post. If you are a follower of my blog post, then you know that I do not post a blog unless I am inspired to write one. Whether it's something that I read, saw, heard, or dropped in my spirit, I wait for it.
Since the last time, I have been real sick, my husband and I opened our salon/spa, I lost a couple of people in my life that I thought was friends and my employment status changed. Have you ever put your all into someone or something and got disappointed. Well, that's where I am at now. I am the kind of person if I am your friend or if I have a job to do, I put my all into it, I give my best and I am always the one that is there for everyone but, when I'm in need or when things are not going to good in my life, the ones who I thought was my friend was no where to be found.
I went through a situation on my job about a month or so ago and it was very stressful for me, I tried my best to get the situation taken care of. The situation was frustrated for me and the other people that was involved and most of the people that was involved I called them friends. I talked with these people everyday, I shared my problems with theses people, I prayed for these people and these same people, who I considered my friends turned on me. I never gave these people any reason not to trust me before or showed them in any way that I would do anything to hurt them. I was hurt, I was confused, I was disappointed because I really put my all into being a good friend to these people.
But, I now know that man will disappoint you all the time. I don't blame them, I blame myself. Just because I put my all into something or someone, doesn't mean they will or I shouldn't expect people to be like me. Putting your all into someone or something and to be thrown out like you are nothing is hard to deal with but, what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger. I have cried my last tear about the situation and now I am going on. Sometimes Things and People are only in your life for a season and for a reason, they are there to teach you a lesson and believe me lesson learned.
Just want to give a word of encouragement be who you are and not what you think people want you to be. Be true to yourself and never expect anything from anybody because you will always be disappointed. When you don't expect anything and you receive something, it's a blessing.
Trust in God and give him your all and you will NEVER be disappointed. I am a living witness. I can now close that chapter of my life and move on to the next.
Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. Colossians 3:23-25