You deserve to be held, hugged, kissed, and loved. You deserve anything and everything you desire, you deserve your heart and your soul. You deserve the absolute best and you only willing to be with someone who can give that to you. You deserve to be treated like a lady. You deserve the truth, not lies. You deserve to be treated with respect. You deserve to laugh, to have fun, and to enjoy yourself all of the time. No negativity, You deserve the world. -Unknown Author
From the Author: Natacha
What is love to you? How would you define love? The dictionary defines love as feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to (someone).
"do you love me?"
synonyms:care very much for, feel deep affection for, hold very dear, adore, think the world of, be devoted to, dote on, idolize, worship;
I really didn't know what love was when I was growing up and I had the wrong perception (a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting something; a mental impression) of love.
I grew up in Brooklyn, New York with a mother on drugs and a father in and out of prison most of my life. As much as I could remember, my mother never told me she loved me, I seen her beaten by my siblings father and when I called the police, she turns around and beats me for calling them, my father wasn't there to tell me he loved me, he wasn't there to tuck me in at night and protect me from being touched where no young child should ever be touched(that's when my perception of love began). Even though I was a young girl who didn't know what love really was, I knew that wasn't the love that I deserved....It just didn't feel right but, I begin to accept it because it was all I knew.
So as I got older, I took the perception of the love that I received and the perception of love with me. I was moved to NC to live with my aunt, because my mother wasn't able to take care of me anymore and my dad was still in prison. I ended up being a teen mother, having low self-esteem, being a single mother, dating a married man and having a baby by him, being in relationships that wasn't good for me. The relationships that I had until I met my husband was, relationships not based on love(it was based of my perception of love by what I saw, experienced and was taught) but based on what I had to give. I was told, "you have a nice shape girl, you so sweet and I would love to be with you." I took care of the men I was with and kept them happy, even if I wasn't(I got that from my mother).
I FINALLY REALIZED.....THAT"S NOT LOVE!!!
To all my beautiful woman(and men to) that's reading this, I want to encourage you...You deserve to be happy, to feel beautiful, and to be loved. Never settle. God has a plan for you, pretty girl. I promise.
My Motto:"What you say today can help someone make it to tomorrow."
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is (springs) from God; and he who loves [his fellowmen] is begotten (born) of God and is coming [progressively] to know and understand God [to perceive and recognize and get a better and clearer knowledge of Him]. 1 John 4: 7
From the Author: Natacha
What is love to you? How would you define love? The dictionary defines love as feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to (someone).
"do you love me?"
synonyms:care very much for, feel deep affection for, hold very dear, adore, think the world of, be devoted to, dote on, idolize, worship;
I really didn't know what love was when I was growing up and I had the wrong perception (a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting something; a mental impression) of love.
I grew up in Brooklyn, New York with a mother on drugs and a father in and out of prison most of my life. As much as I could remember, my mother never told me she loved me, I seen her beaten by my siblings father and when I called the police, she turns around and beats me for calling them, my father wasn't there to tell me he loved me, he wasn't there to tuck me in at night and protect me from being touched where no young child should ever be touched(that's when my perception of love began). Even though I was a young girl who didn't know what love really was, I knew that wasn't the love that I deserved....It just didn't feel right but, I begin to accept it because it was all I knew.
So as I got older, I took the perception of the love that I received and the perception of love with me. I was moved to NC to live with my aunt, because my mother wasn't able to take care of me anymore and my dad was still in prison. I ended up being a teen mother, having low self-esteem, being a single mother, dating a married man and having a baby by him, being in relationships that wasn't good for me. The relationships that I had until I met my husband was, relationships not based on love(it was based of my perception of love by what I saw, experienced and was taught) but based on what I had to give. I was told, "you have a nice shape girl, you so sweet and I would love to be with you." I took care of the men I was with and kept them happy, even if I wasn't(I got that from my mother).
I FINALLY REALIZED.....THAT"S NOT LOVE!!!
To all my beautiful woman(and men to) that's reading this, I want to encourage you...You deserve to be happy, to feel beautiful, and to be loved. Never settle. God has a plan for you, pretty girl. I promise.
My Motto:"What you say today can help someone make it to tomorrow."
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is (springs) from God; and he who loves [his fellowmen] is begotten (born) of God and is coming [progressively] to know and understand God [to perceive and recognize and get a better and clearer knowledge of Him]. 1 John 4: 7